We as staff and volunteers at Alternatives to Violence:

Are not moralists. We do not judge; we support.
Our primary responsibility is to the client; not to police, family, friends, other agencies, or hospitals.
We do not assume all clients want our help.
We do not pressure the client into reporting the battering. We will support the victims decisions.
We will listen when a client needs to be heard, and we will be available when the victim needs counsel.

Our Goal is:

To help the client regain control over their life which has been taken from them by the batterer.
To offer help at the crucial point immediately after the battering or at anytime thereafter.
To prepare the client ahead of time for what will happen, if they choose to report the battering. We will give them an idea of what to expect from: hospitals, police, court, D.A.'s office, and other agencies that work with domestic violence victims.
To refer clients to other agencies when appropriate.

Teens, young adults
and dating violence

According to recent statistics, it is extremely likely that you or someone you know has experienced violence in a dating relationship. Dating violence can take many forms, including psychological and emotional abuse, physical and sexual abuse. It can occur in the context of casual dating or serious long-term relationships. Learn more by clicking here.

Why do they stay?

The most frequently asked question concerning a battering situation is why does the victim stay? While reasons range from children, love, guilt, fear, pride, embarrassment, financial dependence or a combination thereof, it is very possible the the victim is unaware that they may be locked into a violence cycle. Learn more by clicking here.

We as staff and volunteers at Alternatives to Violence:

Our Goal is:

Teens, young adults and dating violence

Why do they stay?

Teens, young adults
and dating violence